We love a good old-fashioned vow ceremony, but more often these days, couples are finding ways to write and/or say their own vows. If you write them, it doesn't mean you have to verbally share them on the day of (hint hint). One of my couples dreamed up the BRILLIANT idea of writing their vows to one another and passing them off on the morning of for each to read separately before the ceremony. It was a special moment for each of them to reflect on the meaning of the day...